Good relationships don’t just happen. I’ve heard many of my clients state that “If I have to work at it, then it’s not the right relationship.” This is not a true statement, any more than it’s true that you don’t have to work at good physical health through exercise,...
As a relationship counselor, I am constantly being asked why so many relationships fail. In the 37 years that I have worked with couples, I have discovered five major relationship killers. CONTROLLING BEHAVIORMost people enter a relationship with a deep fear of...
Sometimes you will find yourself in a situation where you can say, “While I am still in love, my ex does not feel the same way,” and that is a horrible situation. How do you go about rekindling love when your ex no longer seems to be interested in making...
One thing should be said upfront, desperation will not convince your ex-boyfriend to get back to you. Being needy will serve only to push him away. Instead, the task is to toughen up and take the steps necessary to get back what you have lost. It will be hard work,...
How do you know when it’s all over? Is it when one of you calls it quits? Or, is there still hope even when someone has walked out? This article will look at relationships – break up or makeup. There are numerous reasons why relationships break up. Some of them are...